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Wedding gift stress usually comes from comparing yourself to rumors — what coworkers spent, what the bride’s cousin gave, what a blog said in 2014. The better question is simpler: What can I give warmly, without resentment, that fits this relationship?
A practical range
For close friends and family, many givers land between $75 and $150 in the U.S., depending on regional cost of living and whether they’re attending in person. For coworkers, distant relatives, or plus-one guests you barely know, $50–75 is common and acceptable.
These are guidelines, not invoices. A thoughtful $60 gift beats an awkward $120 one you couldn’t afford.
Registry gifts vs. cash
If the couple registered, buying from the list is the easiest way to hit the right note — they chose items at price points they actually want. Cash or check is increasingly normal, especially for couples who already live together. A handwritten card matters as much as the envelope.
When you’re attending vs. skipping
Etiquette varies, but you generally don’t owe a large gift if you’re not attending — though a card is still kind. If you’re in the wedding party, your gift might be modest; your time and expenses already count.
Group gifts and Honeymoon funds
Pooling money with friends can fund a meaningful experience without individual pressure. Contribute what you’re comfortable with and skip guilt if others give more.
Bottom line: Spend within your budget, reference the registry when possible, and write two sincere sentences. Couples remember warmth longer than line items.
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